Women लेबलों वाले संदेश दिखाए जा रहे हैं. सभी संदेश दिखाएं
Women लेबलों वाले संदेश दिखाए जा रहे हैं. सभी संदेश दिखाएं

शुक्रवार, 21 दिसंबर 2012

O mom...I am afraid

O mom, let me hide in your arms...
I feel insecure, I am afraid of dad, brother and all...

I can't allowed a doctor to touch me...I am afraid...

I want to keep myself safe... I can't hold my friend's hand, I am afraid...

I can't hug my father any more...I am afraid....

I can't go out with brother,..I am afraid...

I won't go school with driver, how would I trust him...

I won't stay home alone, if some one come what will I do ??

I want to go in past and become child again...

but...that 's all in vain.....
even I am not safe in your lap......because I am a girl.........

Someone will touch me there.......... .someone will
ask u to play with me and will play with my body.....

I will get hurt.........Ohhhh.....it must be painful.....
I will be so little for this...... So no safe place then ??

Ok can u fulfill my one wish??
Please !!!???
Don't bring me in this world.......let me die instead of getting this pain......
let make this world empty...

If Nobody can give us a place to breath freely......"
"LET ME STAY IN OTHER WORLD"".......

 




I need to introspect and suffer silently.

The status of woman in the society has always been a barometer to indicate the value system and the effectiveness of the laws. When Dusshasana’s hands reached the clothes of Draupadi the situation became ripe for the Great War of “Mahabharata”, in which many died before a new order again came up. Draupadi’s disrobing was not an isolated instant, it was a culmination of the degeneration of the then prevailing society. Every person had to take a stand either to support Pandavas or support Kauravas.
 

Blaming somebody for this degeneration in our society is simply escapism. Everyone should have introspection.

Do we provide sex education to our children? Do we make them appreciate that love and love making is subtle and never brutal and barbaric? Do we make them understand that vulgarity is always crude and ugly?

We don’t do the above, instead we sit with our children and watch movies which depict woman as an item girl stripping her clothes, scenes that show police as a fat man and who is tricked by the youth, father and elderly who are puppets, etc. A Hero is always portrayed as the one who takes law into his hands, talks rudely and cuts vulgar jokes.

Blaming the government looks funny. Who is government – a body elected by my family. Blaming the police is ridiculous because I bribe them before my children when I jump a signal.

If anybody is to be blamed, it’s me and me only. The one raped is my daughter and the one who raped is my son too. YES, as long as I haven’t brought them up as good citizens within my four walls called home, I can’t blame anybody. It’s my mistake. I need to introspect and suffer silently.